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OK, first off, I need to vent... And my first thought was "Shit Pit"... Second, yes, that "Gorram" is a refference to Firefly... (What? I like that show!) So, earlier (the evening of Feb 22nd), Terasa and I went over to her dad's house while he was at work but, where his 'girlfriend' -who he's claimed is 'just a friend/, or as I like to call it fuckbuddy and her niece were at. Kathy (the 'friend') was staying there with the 14 year old niece for the last week, as the niece had recently been suspended from school and sent to stay down here with Kathy. No big deal... Kathy asked Terasa if she could 'baby sit' her while noone was home (as this 'wasn't a vacation' for her, and they didn't want her to do misc. things she was 'grounded from')... Ok, no big deal, Terasa hangs out with her, they get along, Terasa makes $100 for the week... nice. Yesterday we were told that the niece would be staying with Kathy permanently, and that she'll be looking for a new place nearby (she currently lives 20+ minutes away). She's since asked Terasa if she'd be willing to watch the niece for a few hours in the afternoon after school, while noone's home... OK, big deal, $400 bucks a week! but... for the love of god, the kid's FOURTEEN! But, tonight, the fucking cunt (Kathy)was drinking, and started bringing up shit that she shouldn't have... First off, Dave (Terasa's dad) should supposedly drop everything he's doing (IE- his life) and help Kathy find a new place to live, as her 1 bedroom condo isn't going to be large enough to house both Kathy & her niece. Actually, she thought that Dave should hurry up and finish remodeling the basement, so that they could just live there... (FYI, Kathy did temporarily 'rent a room' at Dave's about a year or more ago... but she moved out again when she 'found a place'). Now, Terasa and her brother's haven't taken kindly to Kathy, and think of her as wanting nothing more from Dave (who is 10 or 15 years her senior) than his checkbook... So, the whole "let us move in with him" thing rings bells in my head... SECOND: The bitch brought up Terasa's DEAD MOTHER, and told Terasa that “Joanne (Terasa's mother) and Kathy would get along great”, that Terasa should “Quit thinking about her mom”, “she shouldn't talk about her mom anymore”... ... ... W T F ? ! ? ! ... ... The fucking cunt... what? This bitch has NO RIGHT to speak about Joanne that way, and Terasa has every fucking right in the world to think about her mommy in any way, shape, or form that she wants to... The fucking drunk is nowhere NEAR as good a person as Joanne is/was/could have been... :mad: THIRD: She tells Terasa that Dave and Terasa don't have a very good relationship... Huh? Yeah, they might not have, but since Joanne got sick, and afterwards (excluding Kathy-related bullshit), Dave and Terasa have gotten along well enough... Yes, Dave tells Terasa that she should get a job (she's on disability, and isn't confident about going back to the workplace, as she was 'let go' by her last two jobs for getting sick too often), but otherwise they're on good terms... Hell, we see HER dad more often than I see MINE! :lol: How'd Terasa take this 'advice'? When we were out at Buffalo Wild Wings with friends, she proceeded to follow another wonderful piece of advice Kathy gave her, "Go have fun, have a few drinks, etc etc"... Normally I wouldn't mind Terasa having a couple of beers, but she proceeded to tell me (on her FOURTH!) that "She needed them, because she was upset at what Kathy had said, and that Kathy told her to have a good time"... Christ, NOW SHE DECIDES TO TAKE ADVICE FROM THE BITCH?!?!:mad: We get home around 12am, and Terasa's (Obviously) shit-faced, and proceeds to cry for about a good hour about how she 'let her mom down', and how (as Kathy told her)she 'shouldn't think about my mom', but that she DID think about her (DUH!), and how Kathy said this, and Kathy said that.... Fuck, I'm gonna kick the crap outta the dumb drunk bitch (No, not Terasa, I love her, it's the bitch KATHY I'm talking about)... Now, if you don't mind, I'm going to end my wonderful night cleaning out the shower... Terasa (drunk as she might be) got so worked up, that she vomited in the shower... Guess who's gonna go clean that up... *FUCK, I HATE THAT BITCH KATHY* I think I might have a small chat with Terasa's dad about all this... without the other two knowing I did... Goodnight all, hope your week goes better than my day today... Last edited by Methusalen on February 23, 2007 |
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OMG you have scored ten thousand awesome points for using the term 'Gorram' and okay inlaws of all sorts suck suck suck! I can't believe that bitch had the nerve to even mention Terasa's mother, it is incredibly inappropreiate. you need to speak with your wife and help her to understand that she shouldn't listen to a single word that insecure bitch Kathy has to say. The only reason Kathy is saying anything in the first place is because she is so afraid of people noticing what is wrong with HER that she has to make everyone around her feel like shit, just the way she feels, all the time. don't take that (my future MIL did the same fucking thing to me and guess what? I havent seen or spoken to the bitch since last august) just don't take it, don't let it affect either one of you. tell your wife to know herself well enough that nothing hurtful someone like Kathy has to say will have an affect on her, she knows how she and her mom were, she should know she didn't let her down. and she should certainly know that going out and getting shit faced drunk never ever solved any problem. I hope things get better for you. I don't know if my method of just cutting nasty people like that off is the best method (I mean its my boyfriends mother and he agrees that I shouldn't have to associate with her until she apologizes so its not like I'm hurting anyone at this point). but to remove the problimatic person from the picture, all the stress seems to just go away. there are some people in this world you just can't reason with or talk to or have any sort of civilized contact with, and it sucks but sometimes the best way is to just cut them off instead fo trying to work our a relationship that that person is incapable of having. |
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Yes, well, Terasa is doing much better today, she's all chipper and cheery again... She had apologized about 'being stupid' yesterday... Where I proceeded to tell her basically everything you'd said... So, we won't be bothering with Kathy anytime soon... And the next time we're around her, I'll be damned sure to make sure that bitch keeps her mouth shut... Thanks again for letting me rant... and for the advice! Talk at you later! |
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everyone needs to rand once in awhile, or more often than once in awhile. I try the best I can to help the ranters. |
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some weired stuff right here, when all this stuff was first starting to come down, and my dad was buying all this witchca voodoo stuff and decided to trade my cat in as collateral buy fucking braking its neck and throwing it in this little puddle of mud we made in the back yard we made to try and plant some bamboo, i didn't make much of it cause i didn't know that is what he was doing. well it was still meowing at the door at night and well that cat was a comfort to me at times, so i let it in, let it sleep on my bed with me and just didn't think to much of it. i let it one day, my dad was in my living room making sure i went to sleep, laid down, went to sleep, let the cat in, and started petting it, and the poor damned cat's neck went straight back, like literally looked behind its self in all it's glory horror. fucked me up (that made it better to try and fall asleep) anyway, upstairs in my parents quarters, there is like this silhouette of a head in the moon light, every feakin' time i try to fall a sleep i always wonder if it's going to fall off. never did, but freaky anyways. |
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almighty lougy! said: PARAGRAPHS |
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